A few years ago, my friend Jack went home to | | The consumer,[id:19375], has obligations: politeness |
Cornwall for his father’s funeral. His father | | or at least civility, cleanliness, and the willingness |
had been the local GP and the church was packed. | | to try the treatment administered. As one GP in an |
Afterwards, the mourners queued to express their | | NHS practice in south London says: ¡®I am here to |
condolences to Jack and his sister: one man | | treat any patient on my list. But it is a lot easier to |
explained that he had come because the doctor had | | do it properly if they keep their side of the bargain. |
delivered his three children and four grandchildren; | | I expect them to be punctual, sober and clean, to |
a woman told them that she owed their father her | | answer my questions politely and honestly and then |
life because he’d made her stop drinking; a couple | | to take my advice seriously.’ |
remembered how the doctor had climbed out of bed | | Some patients take their health very seriously |
one Christmas Eve to rush to their infant’s bedside | | indeed. They step into the surgery armed with |
because they feared a chest infection had turned | | facts, figures, and Lancet articles. Few doctors can |
into pneumonia. | | keep up with them. One woman I know, after her |
Jack’s father was [id:19367]. The once familiar | | hysterectomy, asked her doctor about post-op |
figure of the beloved GP whose skills have cured | | treatments available. He shrugged and coughed and |
generations and whose devotion to his patients | | could think of nothing. That same day, she got onto |
(never clients) meant he spent his life rushing from | | the internet and found a self-help website, with |
housecall to housecall has become a memory. | | post-op advice and treatments, and tips from other |
Equally, few GPs today would expect the respect | | women who had had hysterectomies. One entry, |
and veneration which Jack’s father enjoyed among | | she noticed, had been contributed by a nurse who |
his peers. Today’s GP, and the relationship he or | | worked in her GP’s practice, and yet he had not so |
she has with their patients today, is altogether | | much as taken notice of [id:19376]. |
different. | | This new breed of patient must prove daunting to |
A survey published last week by Reader’s Digest | | GPs. When the doctor was seen as a wise |
casts some light on how doctors [id:19368] their | | paterfamilias, whose role was to scold and support |
patients. Of the 200 GPs who took part, half said | | the recalcitrant child-patient, too many of us |
they would like to tell their patients to wash before | | dropped our intelligence and spirit of inquiry when |
coming to see them; two-thirds want to tell them | | we set foot in the surgery. The healers were |
that they’re too fat and about half do not believe | | sacrosanct, their prescriptions [id:19377]. Mute and |
their patients take the medication they recommend. | | docile as children cowed by father’s caning, |
It’s not exactly heartwarming: GPs sound | | patients did their medic’s bidding. |
seriously frustrated and disillusioned in their | | Today, this blind trust in authority has given way |
dealings with us. Are we, the patients, to blame? Or | | to wary suspicion. Whether it be the doctor, the |
are we finally reacting to centuries of their superior | | teacher, the priest, we question those who [id:19378] |
attitude towards the layman? Did the rot set in | | any aspect of our life. What right has my doctor to |
when the medical profession was forced into a | | say my snoring is a result of heavy smoking and |
marketplace mentality, with our health as the | | obesity? |
product, doctors the providers, ourselves the | | This rejection of authority can prove as harmful |
[id:19369]? | | as blind obedience to every dictate issued by the |
Commercialisation can go too far. A doctor’s | | doctor. If we discount everything our GPs tell us, if |
surgery is not a shop. When we buy a gizmo at | | we treat them with dislike or disrespect, can we |
Dixons, we give nothing more than our money. But | | expect them to have our well-being at heart? Yes, |
when we visit a doctor, she cannot heal us unless | | we, the patients, need to take an active part in our |
we [id:19371] about our symptoms (the embarrassing | | health - we can no longer approach medical terms |
itch, the persistent cough) and our habits (how | | as if they were an obscure Cantonese dialect and |
much we smoke or drink and just how much butter | | our bodily functions as if they were obscenities at a |
we like to spread over our toast), nor can she help | | tea party. But in establishing active interest in |
us unless we are committed to following the | | [id:19381], we cannot elbow out those trained to |
treatment she prescribes. | | safeguard it. |