Dear Serena, | appreciate receiving a card | when she turns up to meet | ||||
I love my partner very | as a sign of his affection. | a Mel Gibson lookalike | ||||
much, but he has a | And just in case, spend the | with his own company | ||||
terrible tendency to | housekeeping money on a | and finds a 20-stone bald | ||||
meanness which he thinks | back-up card to send | bloke who lives in a bedsit | ||||
he has disguised with a set | yourself; that way he will at | and works in a sandwich | ||||
of political stances about | least have paid for half of | bar? Oh, and I told her | ||||
commercial exploitation | it. | my name was Gideon. | ||||
and renewable resources. | Barry, Ealing | |||||
The endless recycling of | Dear Serena, | |||||
string and the bits of | Last year, I met a girl on | I wouldn’t worry too much. | ||||
wood clogging up the | the Internet who is | Do you really think that the | ||||
garden shed I can handle, | everything a man could | woman you describe is | ||||
but how can I persuade | dream of: slim, blonde, | spending her nights sitting | ||||
him to drop the pose and | small features, is popular, | in by herself playing lonely | ||||
give me a Valentine’s card | works in the music | hearts on a computer? At | ||||
this year? | industry, lives in a | least you will have your | ||||
Stella, Brighton | warehouse flat in the | lively imaginations in | ||||
centre of town, is a cordon | common. But I would | |||||
Tell him that refusing to | bleu cook, and single. | suggest that you both wear | ||||
participate in loaded | We’ve had a cyber- | unmistakable identifying | ||||
emotional occasions, | relationship for some | marks in your buttonholes | ||||
however commercialised, | months now, and the time | so you have some chance of | ||||
can be interpreted as a sign | has come to actually meet. | recognising each other. | ||||
of spiritual meanness and | The problem is this: How | |||||
that you would really | do you think she will react | |||||
‘The Independent’, February 13, 1999 |