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Doctors were wrong

The girl who proved the doctors wrong

11     Sarah Duffen can't wait for her family 's next holiday to Malta so that she can have
2 a go at waterskiing. Back home, she spends her spare time swimming, horse riding,
3 practising ballet, gymnastics and trampolining. Her mornings are taken up either with
4 baking or continuing her studies on the family's home computer. A full and active life for
5 any normal 20-year-old, but what makes Sarah's achievements so extraordinary is that
6 she has Down's syndrome1).
27     Sarah's will to succeed comes across loud and clear as her mother remembers
8 doctors saying that her little girl would only reach the mental age of five. 'They were
9 wrong!' Sarah says proudly.
310     What would the doctors say now? If they could sit in the Duffens' Renault 5 and
11 watch her driving with confidence along narrow country lanes, they'd have
12 to eat their words. She is now the first Down's syndrome driver in Britain - and probably
13 the first in the world. 'I'm so over the moon,' she beams, 'now I can drive about on my
14 own.'
415     Sarah's father, Leslie, explains that it was only a matter of her getting more practice
16 in busy traffic before she took her driving test. 'think she had to do better than average
17 to pass because she was the first person like her to take a test and we knew the examiner
18 would be rather strict. But I can understand the concern because if something did go
19 wrong afterwards the examiner might be criticised.'
520     Certainly driving schools had doubts about taking Sarah on when Leslie wrote to
21 them more than a year ago. 'I had taught her the basics by driving around empty roads.
22 In the end the director of one school decided to give Sarah a little test,' Leslie
23 remembers. 'She didn't do very well because she was, understandably, terribly nervous.
24 But it was good enough to convince him that she could learn.'
625     It had been a huge blow when the Duffens were told that their two-week-old
26 daughter was a Down's child. But they were determined not to let anybody write her off.
27 So three years later, when Leslie lost his job and suddenly found himself with time on his
28 hands, he decided to teach her to read.
729     'Everyone thought I was mad,' says Leslie. 'Now I wish I'd started teaching her at
30 birth. They say you must teach talking before reading, but if we'd waited for our Sarah to
31 talk properly, we'd never have got started.'
832     The Duffens' main worry now is what will happen to Sarah if anything should
33 happen to them. 'This is a major concern for all parents of handicapped children,' Leslie
34 admits. 'We have made provision for Sarah to have a home with the Home Farm Trust.
35 This is an organisation where handicapped people are integrated into the community:
36 they live in a normal home in the street. They are also guaranteed a home for life - and
37 Sarah will be financially supported.'
938     'I think she will be perfectly independent, anyway, within the next 10 years, so it
39 won't be a problem,' he smiles.
 
     from 'Woman', August 8, 1987


noot 1: Down's syndrome = mongolisme, een geestelijke handicap