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Lessans In life from a metally handicapped girl

Lessons In life from a mentally handicapped girl

11    Lesley Black's birth 21 years ago plunged her mother into a deep depression. She
2 was a Down's syndrome child, referred to as a mongol in those days, and the doctors
3 said she would always be dependent and never achieve any of the things her sister,
4 Diane, then aged three, would do.
25    Today, Lesley has overturned that prediction : she is one of the three finalists in a
6 national award scheme for outstanding achievement by a person with Down's syndrome.
7 Lesley holds a full-time job and, according to Diane, who nominated her for the award,
8 has so many special qualities that she and others like her have much to teach the rest of
9 us.
310    Her victories are helping to further a social revolution in which, instead of being
11 hidden away as defective human beings, people with Down 's syndrome are increasingly
12 winning recognition as valued members of society. Their abilities vary widely, as with any
13 group of people, but as those with lesser degrees of handicap are entering normal schools
14 and taking on normal jobs, they are making it easier for others to follow.
415    Diane, who is taking a doctor's degree in biology, lives with Lesley and a younger
16 sister, Clare, at their parents' house near Aberdeen. She said last week that although
17 Lesley had Down's syndrome, she led a completely normallife. ' If there was ever any
18 need for her to be left at home on her own, she could manage. Obviously, she may be a
19 little slower at talking and thinking. But I would say she has more common sense than a
20 lot of normal people, and there certainly are normal people who are less intelligent than
21 she is.'
522    Even so, it is a strange twist of nature that, along with the distinctive physical
23 features which c1early betray that a person ha s Down's syndrome, Down's people usually
24 have a sweet and open nature that can be a joy to those around them. ' I have had lots of
25 contact with them, and the y are all super people,' Diane said.
26 -'I have even wondered if there was a way I could change my life to be more
27 involved with Down's people. But I decided to stick to science, and be involved that way.
28 In my work I am moving towards research on Down's syndrome, but I feel torn : the
29 research is into finding a way to prevent it, yet some of the nicest people I know are
30 Down's.'
631    Margaret and Jim Black, Lesley' s parents, have had some tough battles in the past
32 to prevent her from being swept aside by an educational system that ha s not previously
33 been adjusted to accepting Down's children into the main stream. In common with most
34 parents of handicapped young people, the y found the worst time was at 16, when school
35 finished and the only future on offer was a place at a daycentre for the handicapped.
36 Lesley did not want that, nor did her parents. Margaret asked for her to be put on trial in
37 a Youth Training Scheme - and the next yea r she became the best but one out of 300
38 entrants as regional trainee of the year. There should be a test after school, Marg aret
39 says , to form a truer picture of each Down's child's abilities.
740    The first five to six years were the hardest, she recalls, in coming to terms with what
41 seemed then like a disaster. 'I cried for days after they told me she was a mongol. They
42 didn't teil me she was going to be wonderfui, and witty, and learn to read and write and
43 have her own job.
844    But once you have accepted it, it becomes a lot easier. You can do an awful lot
45 worse in life than have a Lesley .'


from an article by Neville Hodgkin son in 'rite Sunday Times ', April 2, 1989